Wednesday, February 6, 2013

{f r i e n d . z o n e}




a very broad topic.
we all have heard of the friend zone...but if you havent, here is a quick definition...
the place where boys/girls put each other on accident by being extremely friendly and not realizing that the other might or might not have feelings for you. 
my friends and i often worry our lack of flirtation is mistaken for the friend zone.
because we treat a lot of boys the same..and then tend to flirt with the ones we don't want.
you know when you were in fifth grade and you dont talk to the one you think is cute?
you think it would be different now, but its the same. 
but how do you depict if you are put into the friend zone?
i have been a guilty member of the friend zone.
the girl who can hang out with the boys and talk about there dating issues,
and most of the time i dont mind that.
until i realize that it slowly becomes a problem and i get a little too comfortable,
or dont realize i put them in the friend zone.
we are all guilty of that, 
which then led me to not being "friends" with any boys.
keeping them at a far enough distance that i couldn't be their confidant or just their friend.
i think we "friend zone" people because we are scared,
or because we cant read each others mind.
its scary to put yourself out there and then realize that they were just making out with you, hanging out with you, just to be your "bestie."
not quite sure where that fits in...
but i do know this..the friend zone sucks
and no one should do it.
because its stupid. 
but sometimes you dont realize you are doing it until it is too late. 
here is how it is fixed....
boys need to date.
dating changes things.
friend zone is close to impossible while dating, until you realize he is just not that into you,
or you are not that into him. 
but by then do you even want to be friends anymore?
i love my guy friends so much..
but i personally do believe that once you are in the friend zone..
that cant change.
but i have seen it happen.
two best friends fall in love.
so if you are in the friend zone....best of luck.
may the odds be ever in your favor

shout out to the roommate, aubree, for helping me with this one
xoxo, chlo






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9 comments:

  1. so this is brilliant. i couldn't agree more! i am so tired of everyone's excuse for not dating being, "i don't want to lose them as a friend.' what?! considering every single time they end up not being friends anyway, because after someone decides that it gets awkward so they leave. people just need to take some risks, and realize that sometimes it is better to take the risk than to just sit around and hope. i am going to stop now because i have too many feelings about this topic. haha

    "may the odds be ever in your favor".. you kill me! hahaha

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